Things to Do During the Day When You're Alone

not all those who wander are lost

What an ambiguously strange title that is? But, that's all I could come up with that made sense for this. These last few weeks have been a colossal ball of business, art business that is. Thanks to so many orders coming through in the last few weeks (thanks ya'll!), I've been out of the studio most of the time driving around the city getting prints made, works framed, and then seeing them off to their forever homes. But like every high, there is an equal low.

I've been spending much of my time completely alone, as the misterย is off working and many of my friends here only socialize on the weekends due to their own jobs. As a self-employed creative, artrepreneur,ย many of you can relate, most of the time is spentย doing things completely alone. Usually it doesn't bother me, and it is a necessary part of my profession, painter. But with commissions to finish and orders to fulfill, my creative time has been limited. Maybe it's the time of year, I always get nostalgic around fall and just want to be close to home. Maybe it's the fact that I haven't seen my mom and siblings for 10 months. Boo frickity hoo. I don't want to throw myself a pity party, so today I thought of several fun things to do when completely alone in the day:

 

sketch

Sketching is a great way to work on creative ideas that I can't put to the canvas just yet. Lately I've been exploring figures and looking forward to incorporating them into my abstract work.

Read. The other day, I was determined to sit by the Corniche beach, get some fresh air, and catch up on some good reads. Lately, I've been reading Gone Girl (the movie was so good, I needed more), A Place of Yes (Bethenny Frankel is the real deal), and now recently Art, Inc. by Lisa Congdon. Would love to get some more recommendations, so what are you guys reading?

Listen to TED Talks. Ever notice how the time goes by when you're listening to good TED talks in procession? And then there's that added bonus of feeling like you're actually back in college and your brain is still capable of soaking up new information. Feels good. The last really good TED talk I heard was by "Pico Iyer: The art of stillness." Give it a go.

Visit unfamiliar places. I've been meaning to go to the Abu Dhabi Cultural Foundation. It's the closest thing to a museum in the capital, and I love to learn about the ways and cultures from the past. So, looking forward to this.

Pamper yourself. Baths are great. And no one says baths can only be at night. I also like to light some essential oil blends in a diffuser and keep my apartment smelling fresh. And sometimes, you just need a trip to the mall and buy those things you've been meaning to get. Pampering is especially nice alone, so take advantage of the free time if you can!

Get your shit together. This may not be that fun, but sometimes it's nice to get some organizing done around the house. In addition to laundry and things, there are other ways I'd like to get organized. Mainly, organizing my photos and files on my Mac. Since I got this laptop in March, it's been great, almost too great. Because the moment I save or upload something here, it's off into the mysterious cloud or neverland, and I can't figure out how to see all of it at once and purge the unnecessary.

 

I really like this quote, and it's something I've deliberately adopted this year. When you treat each day like you mean to wake up, then you have a lot more control over your mood. We're all human right? We will have those days. Hoping to stay present and enjoy this moment while I can.

Peace and Blessings,

Amira